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The Tell It Like It Is Advice Your Love Life Has Been Missing

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Are you tired of the same old dating advice? Do you want to find real love that lasts? Then it's time to start telling it like it is. In this article, we'll share some of the best advice we've ever heard about love and relationships. So whether you're single and looking for love, or you're in a relationship and want to make it better, read on!

Girl, Get Your Mind Right: The Tell-It-Like-It-Is Advice Your Love Life Has Been Missing

by Tionna Tee Smalls

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1. Be honest with yourself

The first step to finding love is being honest with yourself about what you want. What are your deal-breakers? What are your non-negotiables? Once you know what you're looking for, you can start to narrow down your search.

2. Be honest with others

Once you know what you want, it's important to be honest with others about it. Don't waste your time or theirs by pretending to be someone you're not. If you're not interested in a relationship, say so. If you're not looking for anything serious, say so. Being honest will save you a lot of time and heartache in the long run.

3. Don't be afraid to be vulnerable

Being vulnerable is essential to finding love. It's impossible to build a strong, lasting relationship without opening up to someone and letting them see the real you. If you're not willing to be vulnerable, you're not going to find the love you're looking for.

4. Don't give up

Finding love takes time and effort. Don't give up if you don't find someone right away. Keep putting yourself out there and eventually you will find the right person. And when you do, it will be worth all the effort.

5. Trust your gut

Your gut is your intuition, and it's usually right. If something feels off about a person or a relationship, listen to your gut. Don't ignore the red flags. And if you're not sure about something, don't be afraid to ask for advice from a trusted friend or family member.

6. Don't settle

Just because you're lonely doesn't mean you should settle for someone who's not right for you. There are plenty of fish in the sea, so don't be afraid to wait for someone who makes you happy. You deserve to be with someone who loves and respects you the way you deserve.

7. Have fun!

Dating should be fun! Don't take it too seriously. Go on dates with people you find interesting and enjoy their company. The more you enjoy yourself, the more likely you are to find someone who's right for you.

Finding love is not always easy, but it's definitely possible. If you follow the advice in this article, you'll be well on your way to finding the love you've been looking for.

Girl, Get Your Mind Right: The Tell-It-Like-It-Is Advice Your Love Life Has Been Missing

by Tionna Tee Smalls

4.4 out of 5